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HOW TO START A CHAT WITH A GIRL

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When you like a girl in real life, there are no questions about how to act. You approach her, ask her name, introduce yourself, offer to exchange phone numbers or become friends on social networks - everything is simple here. But what to do if you are hooked by her VK page? In real life, she will not be able to simply ignore you and move on, but on the Internet - as much as you like. How to start a conversation with a girl by correspondence so that she responds?

 

How to start a dialogue
Did you see her in the comments in a city public page, or maybe among the participants of a group of sports car enthusiasts? Did you go to the page, scroll through the photos and info in the profile and realized that you definitely want to talk to her? Then go ahead. The main thing is to choose the right words at the very beginning. It is important that your message stands out from the rest of the flow. If she is pretty and is active in different groups and public pages, most likely, guys write to her often. So there is a high probability that she will ignore a banal “hi, how are you?” or “hi, I want to meet you”. So how can you start a correspondence with a girl in an original way and start a conversation?

 

Use "bait"
You need to grab her attention from the very first message, which means there should be something that will definitely interest her. Would you be interested in a simple "hello" from an unfamiliar account? Well, she is not. Then what will interest her? It depends on what groups she is subscribed to, what information is in her profile. Here's an example: if she is interested in photography and is looking for interesting locations for shooting, you can send her the coordinates of a couple of interesting places in your city. Just don't forget to explain what it is and briefly tell about these locations. If you just send her an address, it will not be interesting, but creepy. What other options? You can tell her a story or make a witty joke. If such a message does not melt her heart, it will certainly make her smile. And this is already half the battle and the basis for continuing communication. The main thing here is to show originality.

 

Find common ground
This is especially true if you already know each other in real life. Even if this is a fleeting acquaintance and this is your first correspondence with the girl, consider that you have drawn a lucky lottery ticket. As a starter for a conversation like in https://18fu.com/amateur_porn/, you can recall a funny situation that happened at a party, at university or in a common company. It’s cool if you have photos from some common get-together where she looked great – be sure to send them to her. Ask about someone from your mutual friends, if there is news that can be discussed. This will break the ice and help start a conversation.